okay guys, to put the whole Cutty not moving to Missouri in perspective… #1 we are great for/with eachother, we have alot in common and we both keep eachother in line in different ways.
BUT…sometimes things that seem perfect and meant to be dont work out.
Bob LOVES living there, being around all his friends, being around his family. It would break his mom’s heart if he moved (please guys dont pick on him for me saying that eaither, just stating). He loves his High school football team, he loves all of HIS cars, he loves all of you guys (well you know which ones he does and doesnt). He is happy there, maybe not with his job much anymore, but he loves that “little big city”.
Missouri isn’t for Bob, I could survive and adapt well in Pitsburgh but Bob couldnt adapt here, it would be a culture shock, Im telling you. Yeah it may be fine in the beginning but he would later I just know, resent me for having him move here. And a move there is not an option for me, Im happy here. Yeah Bob would make me happy, I’m not saying that at all, but there is so much tying me here, my parents health, my grandparents health, my job, my 2 year old neice, my (not born yet) god child.
There is nothing in Missouri to offer Bob, besides me and I’m not willing to have him be miserable living in this one horse town just so he can be with me.
Its so much deeper than what I could explain in here, just know its not from lack of us caring about eachother, hell you guys dont know me and you can see that…its just not something thats meant to be right now. me and Bob are okay with loving eachother and always being best friends, and thats it. I would never want to lose that out of this whole thing.
If it were a perfect world, maybe things could work out as far as a move on either part, but its not a perfect world, so we’re gonna make US as perfect as we can get it and both stil be happy and content where we are now.
Hope this helps you guys understand more. If not, me and Cutty do, so thats really the only people it really matters to (no offence).
you will never know unless you try. Life is to short to waste on assumptions like this. I never thought my and my wife would make it living together right out of high school, but we tried and it’s been great ever since. If you truely care for someone there are no excuses.
ya what she said…but i am a lot more a red neck than she wants to admit. I mean come on, i love the dukes of hazard, have a dixie horn and have been to more than 20 tractor pulls.
I live in MO and I have NEVER been to a tractor pull…I have been to 4x4 Mud Jamboree’s, I have been to see Big foot, but never in my life to a Tractor pull.
You RED NECK! LOL
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