listen, here is a biology and psychology lesson that will be brief. males no matter what the species want to have sex with as many partners as they can. it’s in their genetics to spread the seed.
here is a interesting saying, “it doesn’t matter where you get your appetite, as long as you eat at home.”
guys are always thinking about sex, doesn’t matter where. like i said, it’s in our genes/jeans and that’s how it will always be. sex doesn’t really complicate the relationship, unless one of the two parties is feeling guilty about the “act” do to repressed emotions, yadda, yadda, yadda.
the relationship may not be all about sex; but, trust me you need to have a good sex life to stay together. if you cant satisfy the most basic instinct and urges it’s not going to work out totally in the end. someone will be unhappy. if not, they are lying.