I commend shops/tuners that do good work and treat their customers right (Jannetty Racing, Junior, etc) and have no problem with steering people away from getting talked down to (and getting a shitty end product/tune) by Howard.
Meet up and talk about it? Not worth my time. I’ll ‘talk it out’ by sucking the doors off of anything on 4 wheels with a Redline sticker that pulls up next to me on the street.