Doing it on my own is me getting pregnant by my bf at the time, him ditching me and not talking to me,him punching me in the stomach in hopes of killing the baby, me going to hospital from bleeding from said punch, me going through being pregnant for 9 months ALONE with no one to help, me giving birth to her in a room at the hospital ALONE with no one there, me raising her for the 1st year of her life before dad decided he wanted to be a dad, and me getting only 50 dollars a week for the past 4 and a half years and only recently going up to 100 a week. Dont give me ur krap of seeing ur mom go through it and u know all, u have no idea the heartache I have been through, the endless nights I cried myself to sleep, the times I had no car, no wheres to live, no family, nothing. I have had a life from hell and I made the best of it and I am in a good position now because of it. Find me a woman who has been on her own since she was 17 , had a baby, and at 23 has a great life, Im not letting you get to me I am DAMN proud of myself and what I have done in my life, most of which is for my daughter so she will have a great life. So preach to someone else.