I don’t mean it’s the same with reference to wanting it. I mean it’s the same in that the 14 year old, be it male or female, only has 14 years of knowledge, experience, and wisdom to draw from when deciding whether or not to have sex. To most people there’s more to sex than just getting your dick wet. Thats why sexual abuse typically causes such severe mental damage, why rape and getting beat up are worlds apart, etc.