No ones flaming, this is a discussion. If you had been on this forum in the past, this kind of discussion is nothing new.
And i’m sorry for your friend, but what do you want us to do? do you want us to stop talking about car crashes all together and sit outside the hospital with candles in our hands?
my condolences go out to your friend, cause its never cool to be in the hospital or to total a car. But i think you’re being overlysensitive to this topic.
-cal