So...

by CC i meant bank card :lol. i have never, and will never get a Credit card. i pay for everything in cash. if you dont have the money, you shouldnt be spending it.
For the DJ she wants this guy that did her two friends weddings and her moms a couple years ago. i was just gunna save money and hire one of my friends that has been DJ’ing professionally since HS in clubs in the albany area. but w.e… im not fighting about it. if she wants to spend 600 for 4 hours so be it. Lol.

Florist is actually a family friend. i forgot her shop, but its on troy-schenectady rd, kinda across from juilet house of brides. saving TONS there.

we arnt doing speeches either. F that lol

5 hour open bar. in a way is a stupid idea. not that it has its benefits like drunken mishaps… but i didnt want friends and family sloshed. :lol i sure will be :angelsmiley. they offered us open bar for the night and it saves us over 1500 cant rememebr the exact number. Our orig budget was ~10k. were in the 15k range now :lol trying to have a small wedding ~100 or so people, and save the money for the honeymoon/buying new cars for the both of us.