if I were in such a predicament where I had to comprimise buying a $35K vechicle and couldn’t buy a 2 seater I would just blow my brains out, but I think thats not what you want to do. so I would do the next best thing, and get an odessey. it won’t waste gas with usless 4wd probably weighs less than 6,000 lbs another plus for gas mileage, and unlike a domestic suv built on a crappy truck platform it would be ok to drive, and not literally fall apart while doing so