It’s a private conversation between you and somebody else so I would think context would matter. Say you and I were best buds and we had a convo going back and forth about KK and you called him a homo as a joke. From my view point thats like you and i talking on the phone and it’s not a problem. However if I sent KK a nasty PM calling him a homo this that and the other thing that would be crossing the line. Just my opinion though.
not picking on you either KK :hug