If you are asking us if you should still keep her, then I think you should look in a mirror and ask “why?” It was only a year. Take what you learned and move on. Don’t let it fuck you up, as all women are not whores. I’m guessing you and her are both young? The older I get the more I realize that people younger than me do stupid things on a regular basis. The younger they are the more it happens. But it’s good that you’re young because in 5 years it’ll be in your past and you’ll have moved on having learned from it.
You’ll be fine. Really, you will. It really does suck and i recommend you wait til you’re alone and let that emotion out somehow. Either by breaking shit or breaking down. It feels good to let out a Dane Cook “I did my best” sobbing cry on your knees in situations like that.
I think the worst feeling in that situation is that loss of control of your surrounding environment. You put that trust into someone and then it gets destroyed. You had it all up until that moment, then… “Wham!”… it hits you and now everything is different. You didn’t want it to change but now it has and you’re stuck saying “Wait a fucking second, how am I not in control? I just lost complete and utter control after all I did? I don’t want this to be happening right now.” But it is. That realization blows.
You really don’t need to ask her any questions as to “why?” because it doesn’t really matter. It seems to happen to everyone at least one time in their life and as you move forward you will look back and say “I’m glad it happened then and not 3 years later.” Believe me… could you imagine being married to her when she did it, or how about if you didn’t even find out?
Tell her that if she lets you ATM her it will prove her love. Then once you ATM he(on video) proceed to kick her out while laughing hysterically and tell everyone you and her know you ATMed her. Post vids for epicness.
It’s even worse when the “friend” is your Brother… I found that one out about 2 years after the girl and I broke up that she had slept with him on a few occasions when we were together…
I haven’t spoke to her since I found out; and I’ve barely spoke to him since I found out. They both deny it; but I have some inside sources I found out from.
x2, how can you even consider keeping either of them around, honestly, another thing you can do is play a little joke like my friend did on his ex
tell her you forgive her, take her out to a nice meal, get some sort of footage of sperm on her face, make lots of copies, put them up in her workplace or wherever, also send one copy of the picture to her parents in an addressed envelope, make sure your face isnt in the picture, deny everything, move on and laugh hard
There are certain things in a relationship that are completely unnacceptable under any circumstance, and this is one of them…since you’re looking for other opinions…
i went through the same thing, except i went out with her for 2.5 years and he was my best friend since i was six, lived 3 houses down from me and we hung out all the time. Shitty part was is that i caught the bitch in the act. sucks but honestly, its the best thing that has ever happened. You learn who your true friends are. So honestly, stop talking to both of them, fuck her friends (or sister if she has one) take a video of it and send it to her.
A slight variation on the best friend and 3some ideas…
Tell her you are willing to forgive her but she has to give you a 3some with the hot friend of your choice first to show her dedication and even the playing field.
Then, after you get the 3some, dump her. If the friend has a little sister, that has you written all over it.
A slight variation on the best friend and 3some ideas…
Tell her you are willing to forgive her but she has to give you a 3some with the hot friend of your choice first to show her dedication and even the playing field.
Then, after you get the 3some, dump her. If your friend has a little sister, that has you written all over it.
She doesnt really have alot of friends now after this…im not going to fuck her sister lol…and apparently shes dating him now. Fuck them both. Give her a wave at cruise night.
Ok here is a true story. On this particular couple’s wedding day the ceremony went off without a hitch. Everyone got to the reception and were having a good time. The ceremony was progressing and during the best man’s speech the groom cut him off to interject with his own words. (Here comes the awesomeness…)
The groom thanked everyone for coming and said that he has something he needs to tell everyone. The groom asked everyone to reach under their chairs and grab the picture that was taped under each chair. The picture was a cell phone pic of his now wife having sex with the best man.
The groom then proceeded to say that he has been waiting for this day and that he was going to have the marriage annulled tomorrow and this was his payback for her cheating on him. The groom told everyone to have a good time, the whole wedding was going to be on the bride’s parent’s and the groom peaced the F out.
I wish I could have seen the look on those proud parental faces.
he’s no friend, and as far as her - ignore her as if she doesnt exist(will piss her off to no end) i had a buddy in HS that hooked up with an ex immedeiately after we split. was aqward it we lost touch for a few years then started hanging out again but it was always dont in the back of my head. now 20 years later we dont speak. ex’s are off limits end of discussion it just aint right. move on they aint friends you are better off in the long term without them