Your 21, u have a hubby in iraq n the forces, your stuck home doing ALL the work and hate life and when he is home he does nothing hardly, u wake up to the same thing everyday n hate it, WHEN u Do go out with friends u get real loose n party and have fun, u get home n start that shitty life with him over seas n not home over agian to go on for days, weeks, n months on end and by all this u are still 21 and yougn but tyet caught in a 38 year olds mind n life. Ya, we get it… it sucks but it wont get any easier,sorry sister…