now that you have this mind set… please take a look about your thread with the BBQ.
Its hard to plan events, there is no doubt about it! This is not a bad turnout for a private party, some people are just to shy or feel to awkward to attend. When you have a public party its ok to be a fly on the wall until you start meeting others, at a private party you lose alot of that.
The way I see it, we have a good group of people going. Newchic what do you think about having it at a little more public place but only tell the ones that paid? The spot I have in mind will be more central, and it will allow people under 21. The first christmas party was one of my favorites and i think there was only 20 people there!
No need to get upset about the turnout, shit happens. But lets not lose the spirit why we want to do this!