i dont think teenagers in general is a big shock the girl was 15 so thats not really too far from the normal i would think however 12 and 13 is a bit too young to be a father or should i say more like an older brother that tells you what to do. i dont blame video games, mtv,satan or even rap music but i do blame the parents because they are the ones that should be the final say into what their kids are subject to. i dont think kids are all fucked but thats all you ever hear about. if a kid is getting all A’s in school , never gets outta line you dont hear shit, but as soon one kid skips school one day and get caught with a cigarette ALL kids are having sex and doing coke at the play ground.both of my kids are great kids and do the right thing for the most part. ive been their friend and father and it seems to me you have to be both. there are some many variables when raising kids . you just need to be able to read your own kid , give them positive direction and trust them… if your a fucked up parent dont be surprised if little johnny has a drug problem at 14 and your daughter is a mother at 15. really its common sense and not really a big surprise at all.