that sounds a little gay
in retrospec i guess it could have cum off that way. opps.
How long were you with this chick?
i was thinking allotta gay…:3some:
Its funny because you usually think that way.
i feel your pain. in more ways than one. drunk right now because of it in fact. cheers.
6 years and 4 months… Pretty much right after she started at her new job, I could tell there was something different. I guess thats how it is anywhere, when a new attractive girl starts working…everybody in the office is tryin to fuck her.
Thanks man, thats my fav… I crushed that shit already :eek3:
Thanks Brian… Actually, i feel a little better just knowing whats going on. She had me in the dark the past few weeks. On a brighter note, I already had a girl I know ask me to go to the regatta with her tomorrow then a 4th of july party. Its gonna be pretty hard for me to ever trust another chick though.
Thanks Mikey, and believe me I know how bad it hurts at first. I was in an utter state of confusion, I thought she was the one solid thing I had in my life. But she’s not, my family and friends have helped me more than I could imagine. Without them I’d be truly lost.
another 1320 lamer thread
If you liked girls, you’d understand.
nudes?
I hear ya brother. Keep your head up and remember that once some time passes it’ll be all better. Once you get over the first month or two of emo bullshit you’ll come out smelling like roses. fresh new no committment pussy ftw.
the man speaks the truth
1320, I feel for you ( 6yrs is a long time to be with someone for it to come to an end the way it did ) BUT it came to an end for a reason…do you really wanna be with someone who gets all excited the minute she starts getting some attention ( at the new place of work ) that she is willing to forget the 6yrs you two have been together for a possible fling. I WOULDN’T!!
All you guys are killing me…(in a girls perspective)----most of you have done your own dirty lying, cheating games…if you haven’t I commend you.
LISTEN- If cheating occurs in a relationship ( whether you the cheater or the 1 cheated on<—It’s over… the person cheated on never forgets! OR they cheat back out of spite AND then again IT’S OVER…then both of you have trust issues.
What I’m getting at…DON’T CHEAT… if you want someone else, end it and thats it!! OR if you’re cheated on…and stay in it, then you better decide that no matter what it won’t effect the relationship. Otherwise its pointless–
THERE IS ALWAYS SOMEONE OUT THERE WHO WON’T CHEAT- go find em’!
^^ Good luck on the non cheaters thing. 6 years is a really long time for any relationship. People change.
Good point…thank you.
sorry to hear man, it hurts right now but as time goes on it will be easier to deal with. you don’t want to be w/ someone who cheated on you anyhow, ya know? that right there is bs. Two things that are NOT forgiven in my book, cheating and beating. I wouldn’t deal with either one. I’d be gone in a flash. Good luck, keep your head up and hang out w/ the guys…leave the girls alone for a while 
You’re right it is hard to find someone that is completely about you and YOU only! But it does happen and you have to be willing to trust a person at first…WHEN and IF they let you down is when you get out of it!
In regards to your statement " people change " ----I’m confused, Are you saying that after 6yrs and her cheating or whatever it may be that she may change" ???
I think that at the beginning of a relationship the changing happens ( here and there ) But I have found that MOST people don’t change! In his situation, ( which I have only read about through this thread ) they went through the changing and he had thought they had come to a mutual understanding of where their relations where going-----GUESS THAT WASN’T SO! seems like things haven’t changed after all…
yo if you want to get drunk today too I am down. drunkin muel baby. you should have gotten more loose last night at marks and at least gone drunk swimming
only time heals…can’t speed up the process at all besides getting fucked by a bunch of new strange pussy. The strange will get you over the hump. Hit up some clubs…you’l be alright.
Yeah that sounds safe…:eek3: