To the OP: Honestly what did you expect when you decided to post this here? Obviously when you post a thread like this there are going to be douchebags that feel the need to chime in and tell you you’re an idiot.
I don’t know how many god damn times I have to tell people not to post personal situations online like this. This situation is your business not other peoples. If the situation is as bad as you say it is, then follow your lawyers advice and figure out a strategy of recovery.
Anyway for the record I’m not trying to come off as defending weed either because I don’t smoke.