I would appreciate any help for a date I have (yes, with a girl!!!) on Wednesday night. The reason this is hard for me to figure out is that I get out of work late and won’t even see her until almost midnight. Obviously drinking at some bar is an option, but I like this girl enough that I would like to spend quality time with her and not just try to f her, although that would be nice…Any ideas???
Well if you are taking her/ meeting her out make it her choice, but I would reccomend just a bar, not a nightclub, as it will make it much easier to talk and get to know her better.
Drinking at a bar is always an option… Just go to some laid back bar that’s decently quiet… I found that Fridays was a decent place to chill… but they are only open till about 1 on weekdays. You could also go out to TOMS, or dennys or olympic or something for some coffee and pie / late dinner… I dont know how late Starbux or the spot is open but you can also try a coffehouse type place if they are open that late.
Go to some nice Martini Bar. They are laid back, usually hav esome nice music playing and are a bit classier!
If I do go to a bar, every bar that I got to will be decently quiet simply because it is a wednesday. I would like to find something different than just a bar though. Every time I have seen this girl, we have always been drinking. I really want this girl to fall for me, not just have a drunk hook-up.
Depending on the weather then. . .
Go to dessert deil, but a couple of nice things there, and set up an under the stars picnic somewhere, no more romatical than that!
^ sounds like a pretty good idea! And I forgot to mention earlier, she is only 20 and doesn’t have a fake id. I can’t get her into some places :snky: but not the nicer “martini bars” or things like that. The places I could get her into would have my loud drunken friends and then I would hideously transform into one also.
any good jazz bars/cafes around buffalo?
well, since you dont want some drunk hook up and every time you see her you go out and drink…
why dont you take her out somewhere she would like to eat …
or rent a movie and cook some dinner together at your place, that could lead to a lot of conversation and you could get to know her better and likewise for her…and you could have some drinks while you are at it…
If it wasn’t so late, I would probably have taken her to Clifton Hill and maybe taken her to eat at Rainforest Cafe or something and then have gone to Boston Pizza to drink or play pool. Those kinds of places make you feel like you are on vacation or something. Since Canada closes at 2, I need to find something “different” to do and impress her. Don’t want it to be too intimate because we are sorta feeling it out, we always hung out in large groups and not alone.
Ohh, and if I rent a movie with her, I would only think about hooking up with her. I really want to impress her outside of easy hook-up territory. And the place I live in right now is a shithole…seriously.
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If its a first date… I think a beach picknick at 12:00 Midnight puts out the wrong kinda vibe. It might make her nervous.
Take her to Prespa on Deleware. Very classy. The atmosphere is excellent. Its dark, cozy, good music, no ass-shakin or top 40 shit or elevator music like in Fridays.
There is a small outside patio, tables inside, and several coffee tables with opposing couched on both sides. They serve food (very good I might add) till 3 I think. Dress well.
Mothers is also a option (open and serve late) but you are stuck ordering food to sit at a table or at the bar. It tends to get noisy there at times which i personally hate.
It might not be the best idea to take date advice from a person with “violator” as your username lol but that sounds like a winner so far. Especially because she lives near Delaware.
hope that was a joke… if not then applebees is your cup of tea
What is Prespa by the way?? It could be what i’m looking for… ^(and it was a joke) Do they id??
:word: I’ve personally never gone wrong with this option.
Before when gas was cheap I loved just taking cruises with my lady friends… get some Iced Cappacinos and drive for a couple hours… but now I don’t do that, because gas is expensive… and i need a lady friend. 
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The car ride is also a good way to test your one on one skills… and its not like you are gonna make out while driving so its not like an awkward staring contest when there isnt stimulating conversation… Bringing up random things about certain places you’ve been as you drive by them intises conversation as well…
I wouldn’t suggest this as a first date… this is more for a night where you don’t know what to do, but neither of you wanna sit inside.
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take a ride in yo pimp kaa…talk, girls like to talk…it really butters 'em up…and surprise her when you stop out in the country somewhere, and lay out a blanket to check out the stars away from the city lights…she’d dig that too…ask lots of questions and pretend interested in what she says…even though we all know you won’t be…then try to think of stories in your life (it doesnt matter if they really happened or not…as long as they sound good) that kinda tie in or are in the same category as the stories she tells you…just to establish some sort of common ground…whether real or not, again…it doesnt matter, because she’ll buy it all…
if thats too much effort, then just take her to a quiet bar, most places aren’t that packed on a wed night…hit up starbucks downtown to make yourself look hip and somewhat intellectual because a lot of the starbucks crowd downtown is somewhat smart…and afterwards take a walk to a bar or something…that way if the talking and bullshitting trying to get on her good side with stories didn’t work, you can always resort to getting her liquored up…
fuck man i could write a book for ya…all depends on the girl and what she’s into though…which is why you should never put too much effort into the setting of the first date…spend the first date trying to figure out what she’s into…then on the second date plan a bit more, make the setting ideal for her mood, and THEN you should be able to dump on her chest…given that you play your cards right…
There’s always the casino. Although that takes money. Shit throw A couple 20s in the slot machine and see if shes lucky!!
Trying to think what else is open that late on a weekday…
Um, bars and strip bars. I don’t suppose she’s into girls, is she? If she is, she’s a keeper!!!
But seriously, I don’t know, its a tough call. I’ll say find a nice quiet bar like everyone else put. If either of you are underage, you might just have to settle for a late nite restaurant.