Do I apologize?

So recently I got a facebook request from a high school classmate.

Who has threatened to kill me on several occasions… Has told me if he came in with a shotgun into school I would be the first target.

ILC getting death threats who would have thought.

So I accept the friendship not thinking anything of it. Its pretty sad, like really fucking sad he’s had nothing but a shitty life and been fucked over even more. He was away for a while, and now he is back in the Buffalo area, and basically has all my info via facebook.

He has not made contact with me in anyway since coming back, but Should I give a precautionary “I’m sorry for high school, I was an asshole” or just ignore it and hope he forgot and forgave?

I do genuinely feel bad about his situation because it does sound like a crappy life. I’m not gonna lie either I don’t want him to get all friendly with me and want to hang out and what not. I just don’t want my ass to get shot, and for him to at least improve the quality of his life.

Any thoughts, No names will be given nor will I admit to who this is.

No poll needed for this :slight_smile:

ugh… as much as i want to be an asshole and say fuck him… say your sorry, from what you told me, it does sound like hes been through some shit… it cant hurt anything… i just wouldnt take him out for drinks… God only knows what hes like all liquored up

yeah cuz other wise it will turn out like billy madison. you better apologize to him now so he takes you off the list hanging above his couch. And you never know someday, maybe he will shoot someone for you that is going to murder you just because you apologized to him

just so theres no confusion

you could always help him find a car… ive heard youre good with that

Yea I don’t wanna be with someone thats gonna start balling his eyes out at a bar.

ugh… actually the last time I saw someone from high school in a weird mood all drunk he killed himself like the next week. God I felt bad about that one… I should have noticed all the signs :confused:

lol. im glad i was never a huge asshole to anyone

“thanks for the candyyyyyy”

I wasn’t really an asshole, but the I just was the one that was like “Will you shut the fuck up, no one wants to hear about your god damn space plans, go shoot shit out the window like you are soo fucking good at”

Then it would turn into an arguement… and someone gets detention… or the bus stopped and the driver would bitch… and I would get threatened lol… crazy kids

yeah good call, i woulda NEVER pegged you as an asshole

either way make sure ur doors are locked

$10 says he doesnt want to heart the shitty pointless apology your thinking of making. no matter what u say its not gonna be enough.

i had my highschool listed on myspace for all of 2 weeks, and i had so many people from my class try to add me or talk to me. it made me sick.

some wanted to talk to me like we were great friends in highschool.
some wanted to say sorry for this or that.

i didnt care to hear any of it.

dont drag up old shit, dont act like nothin ever happened. just be cordial, make small talk, that kind of stuff.

OK… I came up with two apologies.

“Hey I’ve seen that you had a pretty rough life, I do want to tell you I was an immature asshole in high school. Life will look up for ya, just keep on truckin” (he’s a redneck so i tossed in the truckin part to be on his level")

or

" Hey, I was an immature asshole in high school, I do want to tell you that I’m sorry tonight. Maybe we can get a drink sometime" = Hopefully never asks me to get a drink with him. I’d probably just ignore him anyway then probably be in the same shoes i am now.

or

“TAKE ME OFF YOUR HIT LIST I’M SORRY”

shit… listening to hotrodkid… hes trying to get your ass shot

OK so what the fuck do I say…

" Hey I see you like dragons… um I like dragons"

The kid is in some fucking fantasy world. I don’t have any common interests with the kid… He likes disturbed for christ sakes

your fucked

Get shotgun and shoot him instead?

Pretend you’re someone else, that you’ve never attended high school anywhere ever, and that you only speak spanish…

orrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr… get him before he gets you?:sword:

Total my car, get the same thing… then bitch about how much I hate it?

<3

lol dragons?

it’s been how long? I wouldn’t worry about it. That’s not being a hard ass, it’s been years, amirite?

~6 yearsish

dans new sat night plans…