There are way too many different points of view, pieces of advice, life lessons, experiences, etc… to give you good advice. Basically, don’t make dumb choices. If things are preventing you from focusing on school work/future…then look at your situation for what it is.
You need School, Job, Place to live, Car, and food. You don’t need a G/F that doesn’t support your endeavours, a siq ride, party money, a FAT savings, 4G iPhone, Digital Cable, etc…
I think too many fear that school/career balancing act. In most cases you will find students living above their means. You are in college, you should not be worrying about how to pay your bills. If you can’t afford what you have then cut expenses. You can always make money. You can’t always get an education.
For the job, if you have one now it should not be a stressful one. School is more important in this stage than ANY job. Let me rephrase, any commerical job outside the scope of your career can suck your salty nuts if it interefers with your progression. Stay respectful but that is the bottom line. If you are working in your industry, get a plan together. If you plan it out, even in your head, you will have a much easier time making “though” choices when you bargain for movement or tell you boss you completed what you set out for.
Bitches, see previous statement. If you have a person in your life that nags, complains, drains your wallet for their selfish needs, wants you to take their burdens, etc…drop them like a bad habit. You don’t need life stress at this point.
This is really something that will vanish, free time. I went to school full time, typically 12-15 credit hours, and worked full time, 40 hours, for 4-1/2 years to get my bachelors, total of 143 credit hours I believe. In my case I gave up a lot of things as I could not justify putting off my education. What worked out in my favor is that I got accustomed to the workload such that it was not tiring. I can easily pull an 16 hour day, gome home, eat diner, relax for an hour and then be back on my feet in 6 hours…but that is me.
If you are driven you will succeed. If you half-ass it, go look for a job at Mighty Taco.
Did I answer your question? Probably not. But, I am a realist. Not in a cosmos sense. More of, if this is going to stop me from what I want then I must choose another path.
Good luck to you.