As I said before, I fully believe that there isn’t just one simple reason why people are/become gay. I honestly know bro-dude types that are completely gay. A lot of people would think they are just plain “normal” (for lack of a better word, your sexuality doesn’t determine how “normal” you are). I also know a lot of gay guys that are feminine like it was pre-determined at birth (high pitched voice, frail body structure).