Wow pal, a little narrow minded are we? I’ve got two kids, and I’m not married. Two things: Weddings cost a lot of money. A lot. Let’s also mention that over 50% of marriages end in divorce, which usually fucks a kid up a whole lot more than just breaking it off.
I’m engaged, I’m getting married next year, but just because I have kids and I’m not married doesn’t mean myself or my kids are scumbags.