Hypothetically Speaking...

dude there are way to many girls in this world to get all strung out over l-dot.

it’s seriously the truth.

just take this as a learning experience.

but if she means that much to you then you do what you got to do.

truth.

seriously dude. we need to chill and let bygones be bygones…

straight up, there it is. ^

killed two birds with one stone in this thread?

who gives a fuck? She’s your ex-girlfriend for a reason…

i suppose, but we always know it’s never that cut and dry…

yeah, so what? Shit ended badly, we’ve all been there. It usually didn’t have to end badly but someone fucked some shit up along the way.

It’s just something you have to accept…any relationship with that person will forever be tainted by whatever stupid shit you/they did while the original relationship was ending. It’d be nice if we could go back and just “erase” moments when we totally fucked up any possibility of a future (you know those moments when you say/do something while thinking “This is a bad fucking idea and I’m totally going to regret this” but you do it anyway), but hey…you can’t.

So let it die and if you can ACTUALLY turn off any feelings for her, I suggest you do so.

i fucked her over so bad… now she’s just going to get it again, tho… i mean, it’s so hypocritical that i’m trying to save her, but it’s all i could do…

maybe she should stop dating those cool edgey hipster kids…

Well, you could walk away and live your life.

or

You could get involved in a shit storm of drama that will stir up old emotions, confusing the hell out of your judgement and decision making ability, maybe start dating again, remember why it didn’t work the first time, break up only it’ll be uglier the second time around, then walk away wondering why you ever got involved in the first place. But it might be worth it. Maybe your feelings for her are real, not just regret over what could have been. Maybe you can save her.:roll2:

Your call.

the second one sounds so much more interesting, lol.

meh, i’m not all broken hearted emo boy about it. i’m collected, just uncertain how to approach the idea…

Haha yeah and you’ll probably get some poon out of the deal. :tup:

haha, that’s not an issue. i can get poon out of almost any deal.

Personally, I wouldn’t be going for a VW driving, pimply faced total douchebag with bad hair and a huge fucking beak’s sloppy seconds.

That shit sucks if you know they were with a douchebag before…all it takes is a 1 second thought of her fucking them raw dog, instant buzzkill

eh, i’ve dealt with it in the past.

:word:
If it doesn’t work the first time, it wont the second time. Theres a reason why you broke up and you might always have feelings for this girl, but its not going to work.

I made the mistake of getting back together with an ex, thinking that the issues that we had wern’t going to be a factor, because i really did care about her and wanted to get back together. Well, it didn’t work because eventually those issues became larger then the “missing” her feeling. I still care about her and miss her from time to time, but realize that it’s just not gonna work, so i’ve looked elsewhere.

Man, all this peripheral shit and no one has talked about a core issue.

TRUST. If it’s not intact don’t even bother with a second time around. Period.

lol.

u could grow a sack and tell the guy off? or grow a sack and talk to her? or grow a sack and move on. either way, u get the point.

the kid is a weiner

no one trusts anyone anymore.

and you can’t compare relationships…you just can’t