that’s a stupid thing to say unless you have steelies…
mag alloy wheels = 55-65lbs retorqued the next day… aluminum = 75-85lbs…
those are unlubricated values, if you use lube on the studs use the lowest of those numbers
too high a torque will deform the lug seating area and can possibly warp the wheel (or introduce small stress fractures), however with steel you probably don’t care since it will deform safely and even if you wear them out steelies are cheap