nikuk do you not believe in god? do you not believe in a higher power, budda, alla etc etc, so I take it your are non believer? How come? Were you raised like that? Or did you meet someone in your life that made you not believe?
And yes your right, I DO think that God should rule with and Iron fist, but if you read and understood the bible you would understand that he and Jesus believe in forgivness and asking for it.
And since I can man up and say I do commit sins, swearing etc etc, it does not mean that I go out of my way to commit sin.