i couldn’t be bothered to read the op, but, yeah, going dt is not interesting to me at all. it might not help that i work there i suppose. if i’m not working, i’m not there. i greatly prefer sitting at home, going to a movie, or doing ANYTHING with my gf that doesn’t involve dealing with assholes at bars. i would also like to add that it has nothing to do with me having a gf. i hated going there long before i started dating her.