She has been. If you only knew. I cant for the life of me figure out why she stays with him. She says shes not getting any younger, and she has no money or retirement to fall back on. He makes about 75k (at the least) a year at the airport. So hes on one half of the house while she is on the other, he keeps helping her pay bills. More like roommates. He works nights and she works days so they never see each other. My moms self confidence is terrible, and I could never understand why. She gets hit on by guys my age, shes petite, and a beautiful woman…she just has the worst luck with men. I tell her about stuff I go through and shes like oh arent you upset or how are you dealing with it…and Im thinking, I am fine. I just dont let shit bother me I guess. She is the total opposite. Which sucks.