Anyone ever feel like their relationship is just slipping out of their hands? It still seems like everything is fine but somewhere down deep you feel like your losing it…
yes, right now lol. my g/f talks about the future too much, and relies on me too much. i love her and everything but i dont wanna be a cruch. o yea, she doesnt want me to go to carlisle or to dorm next year, and i say fuck that to both, so i dont know where its gonna go, but at this point ive been so annoyed lately i dont even care if she dumps me.
Yeah, well I am walking out of her life in 5 weeks. Fucking blows knowing the end is coming and there is no stopping it. I know that we cant make it work once I’m in the Army, so too bad…
Yup. Figure out why you feel like you’re losing it. Don’t waste a minute thinking about what the other person should do differently. Just focus on yourself. What you feel, why you feel that way, what you can do about it, and if you really actually want to do anything about it.
If that fails go drinking with your buddies! :beer2:
yes
fortunately, this is nothing new for us
sigh…yes.
i always looked at it this way.
it if was to be - i mean, if this person you’re with is the one for you - then things will work out in the end - regardless of what happens.
but if doesn’t work out, then obviously that person wasn’t the right one for you.
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Cheer up emo speeder, and don’t forget your courtesy fuck on the way out
Spring Cleaning is here!
:word: yeah, it’s quite simple… but that concept works for me and keeps me going.
my ex and i finally get on good terms then i move to NC in a month :ham:
That’s pretty much the best way to describe it… Some people would like to think they are in complete control of their destiny; but a good deal of it is out of our hands… This part of life is always difficult, those questions always linger,
Am I with the right person?
Will I ever find the right person?
Is there such a thing as a right person?
You’re better off just rolling with it and letting the chips fall where they may…
don’t stay in a relationship because your comfortable either. Just because someone’s been by your side through a lot of things, doesn’t mean there isnt someone else that can do the same things for you but even better.
If you think it’s not gonna work out, it’s not going too. Don’t hold on to something that’s not gonna work out ever- just wastes time and new opportunities come and go.
I did it for a year and finally got out of my 3 1/2 year relationship but didn’t let go for a year. Now, we don’t talk at all and i’m doing just fine. I just wish i had to guts to leave a long long time ago.
good advice :word: