So I have these and I need them to look like these.

Here, buy new ones…

the bolts are stretch to yield, and may not be able to maintain the right torque

http://www.titanium-touch.de/titanium_touch_index_uk.htm

http://www.vwvortex.com/artman/publish/industry_news/printer_1900.shtml

http://forums.vwvortex.com/zerothread?id=1022742

http://cgi.ebay.co.uk/BBS-RS-Split-Rim-120-GOLD-Bolts-BRAND-NEW-OZ-RH-VW_W0QQitemZ190201921500QQihZ009QQcategoryZ14771QQcmdZViewItem