I’ve bought/sold with Ryan, good guy. If anything, he should just give it to you straight, or just make small payments.
Not that it matters, but to the guy who made the quote, “money lent to a friend can only be gotten back from an enemy”, hit the nail on the head. Very recently I “sold” a car to a lifelong friend who was trying to get back on his feet, and promised to pay $2,000 within 2 weeks so he can start making it to a new job.
Got about $500 the first month, and other $100 3 months later, then I started sending him some pretty straight forward on emails, telling him I shouldn’t have to come looking for him for $ for the bast damn car he’s had since he was born, and I think it’s f’d up since I’m also a friend. A week later he killed himself. Never did or will ask his family for anything, I still see the car being driven around by his mom, who I think hasnt had her own car for the last 10 years, and still puts a smile on my face when I see her drive by.
I guess I’m just glad I never made a thread telling the world how shitty of a person he was.