well i have some options

who cares i didnt really grow up until 22 either

in that case id stay here :ugh:

biggest question how long have you dated? under a year dont even think of it

ok guys are missing two things, He is staying with family till he gets on his feet, 2nd its her dad’s FRIEND who owns the landscaping buisness. Not t he family its self.

I say if you have a way back and your parents can help you back if shit goes sour, I say take a chance and go.

Everyone is different. Hell Like hannibal, I moved in with jenn 4 months after starting to date. We lived with each other first then got married. It just works for us, and it always seemed right.

You can;t tell some one they are making a mistake because you are not them. Just because your situation didn’t work doesn’t mean his won’t

Just if you do move down there don’t piss around with getting established. Put all your hobbies on hold and get set up. That way you don;t seem like a burden and you don;t ruin anything you may possibly have connection wise with her parents.

Never said Dont do it or do it.

plus 20 -30 years ago, you were expected to be married and have kids at such a young age :kekegay:

i would say go for it if you are looking for a change in your life.

if you are doing it to be with the girl, i would say no.

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Hit’em and run I always say.

mti is in houston

I say go for it. If you love her, you guys can get through anything!

i am looking for a change…and i def. want to be with her!!!

do it already you fucking pussy :smiley:

i’m not gonna say what u should do but i’m just gonna say what i would do/did. I love pittsburgh unlike most other people who like to bad mouth it. Regardless of all the shitty things about this place, its my home, where i grew up and where i have all my memories. I’m never gonna sell out the burgh for a girl. I’ll make sacrifices and bend but my feet are staying here. If a girl loves me enough she’ll know that if she wants to be with me this is where its gonna be. My ex girl wanted so badly to move to a warm climate and it was a constant battle and i wasn’t willing to leave it all just on the basis of weather. Secondly, Olds angel is from MO and i straight up told her she wants to be with me this is where its gonna be. SHe was very close to moving and for the same reasons i wouldn’t move there she wouldn;t move here. My best friend lives in charlotte and wants me to move but he knows this is my home. My family and friends are the most important thing to me, they were around way before any girl, how do i devalue them for one person just over a romantic realtionship? I don’t belive in all that fate BS and i’m not gonna let my heart lead me around by a string. I’m not gonna be the person who visits there parents twice a year cause they feel obligated, i’mma take care of them when they need it just like they took care of me. If a girl i like wants to move then obviously we don’t have that much in common.

if nothing more how the fuck would a relocate 5 cars.

If you love her why are you even questioning it? I would move anywhere for my wife. When we started dating, I had an offer from raleigh, but the girlfriend/wife didn’t want to move, so I stayed here. I fucking hate Pittsburgh, but would hate to have her leave her family even more. If you think she is the “one”, your only choice is to move. my $.02

i think this makes sense and is well put. u r the only that can make a decision, but i agree w/ this^^

im wanting to go…now its just putting up with my parents not wanting me to move soo far away!!

thats just makes it eaiser to move back if shit does get really bad, they will be desperate to have you back :smiley:

hahah ur right!!! idk…i think ill enjoy it!!! property value down there is soo cheap!!! 4 bedroom 3 baths attached 2 car garage…almost 2000 sq. feet…for like 140,000 in really nice areas!!!

don’t shit where you eat