I’ll be completely blunt on this one.
in the beginning, hang out with friends, find a hobby, and at night when you are feeling frisky rub one out (i can’t stress it enough how much of an awesome mood changer jerking off is) or call an ex for some come on over i love you i’m sorry about the past sex, then never talk to her again.
when you start feeling a little better about yourself, and not think about her every 15 minutes, you’ll start to notice what you didn’t like about her. Odds are you will realize that she wasnt the one for you…
Story time: I was in a relationship for 9 months, got sent away for a short time come back, things were a little rocky before hand, i came back and was comepletely in love with her, she was what i wanted. an hour after I got back and settled in to my apartment she comes over and dropped a wicked bomb on me. She had feelings for someone else and cheated on me while i was away. But she still loved me… fucked up let me tell you… after 3 months I met someone else and realized that this new girl was a huge improvement, started to be more critical with who i was gonna see. dated her for a little bit, got some great sex out of her… and the girl that i was “in love with” means nothing to me. I realized something about her, and that was not what i wanted at all.
Believe me this is no easy path. But i say the quicker you can say “fuck you, i don;t want you back” the faster you’ll find someone else, SOMEONE BETTER, More attractive, and will suck you off like a hoover oh ultra high.
Oh and this Blah blah, its its meant to be… shit … fuck that crap. Nothing is “meant to be” its all a timing thing… if you are at the same points of your lives, been through this… or been though that. Destiny means nothing, its just something you hope for and get depressed about when it doesn’t swing your way… its like believing in god or soemthing … pointless and counterproductive…
But seriously relax, don’t talk to her.
If you really want her back, talk to other girls, ignore her sometimes (its tough), be a jerk to her at times, with in no time she won;t fucking leave you alone… fuck her a few times and move on…
Wait… Did you say she cheated on you?? If she did, YOU are the fucking moron for taking her back for it… Once a cheater, always a fucking cheater. Scummy scummy bitches. With out sitting here and ranting how much you should just move on…
JUST FUCKING MOVE ON
edit: oh and the normal “if she thinks she likes you more than you like her, she’s yours” make every girl think that, and PUSSY ALL OVER!! Confidence too man… little bit of self confidence, you’ll be fighting off girls with a fucking stick