Myself being 22…I tend to agree with Sight n’ sound. I would say that most older woman( some of them ) have been young and had the characteristics he mentioned above. What I am getting at is, dating and having relationships brings you some clarity- what you want from a man, what you DON’T want. Along with how you are in a relationship with this person.
An older woman is more than likely more comfortable in a relationship and is focused on the things that she has learned through her previous one’s. With this being, I also know younger women to know what they want and to deal with being on there own ( not depending on a man ).
Hope that made sense I tried.