Sweetie I got news for you, I was married for 4 years and got divorced last year. Got a house, worked my balls off (so did she), and we had our shit together trying to start a family. One day last year she thought banging some guy that was going to be an inspiring rap artist and had nothing was the better option and she threw everything away to “explore”.
I got a good lawyer and I took everything except for a set of old living room furniture and she makes payments to me each month for her debt (I make a ton more than her). When I say everythig I mean everything, House with everything in it, New Truck, My Motorcycle.
Bottom line, she was young, had no idea what she wanted, and made a snap decision.
I sit back and watch other people in the same situation and 80% of the time, its an age issue and maturity.
I’m sorry if you took offence to it, but its the truth.