your group of 7-8 gay friends is not enough of a sample to provide any persuasive edivence of rampant promiscuity in the gay community. if there are other sites that statistically and scientifically prove it, within a reasonable assurance level, then i will stand corrected.
as far as the whole condom issue, the first word in your statement, “generally”, sums it up. your statement is just that, a generalization that you have no data to back up.
you do think about it rationally, i just don’t happen to agree with you. :tup: