A Torontonian Perspective (on buffalo)

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A Torontonian Perspective
by Lorne Opler

Straight up the QEW is where I live; in the city that rates as your most popular weekend destination, perhaps only second to NYC. Of course, that’s Toronto, a place loaded with so much to do, two days and two nights on the town is never enough; great restaurants, theatre, and Eaton Center shopping. A walkable downtown, a neat subway system, and perhaps best of all, a favorable exchange rate. Born and raised here, I know it well. And you know it too, as a clean, attractive, multicultural mecca. Sure, it’s a nice place to visit, and yes… many would want to live here. So isn’t it odd, therefore, that despite its rave revues and enviable reputation, my attention and interests have always focused on Buffalo?

                                                                         Why would I prefer a city who's downtown is only now awakening from a decades old slumber, to one that beats 24/7? Why am I drawn to a town impossible to traverse without a car, to one where a safe, clean transit system can whisk me anywhere across this town?

To start, my roots are WNY ones. My father is a Lockport native. And though he moved north before I was born, I’ve been visiting your city ever since before I can remember, appreciating it for its inherent qualities that are increasingly absent in sophisticated Toronto; friendliness, lack of pretence, a willingness to simply acknowledge the passer-by on the street – sadly, a rare occurrence in my town.

But it’s more. There is a personal identification I feel with Buffalo that extends beyond my family connection. I relate to your personality and psychology - the urban underdog, the survivor city, resistant to putdowns, resilient to defeat. It may get knocked around in the media, where Toronto only gets raved about. It may be joked about on late night TV, where Toronto only gets praised. But where Toronto has glitter, Buffalo has heart. Where Toronto has prettiness, Buffalo has pluck. I’ll take pluck over pretty any day. Pluck has substance and depth. Not always the case with pretty. Sure, the big guy across the border may grab all the fanfare, but we all know everyone roots for the little guy. That’s one reason I like Buffalo.

And yes, Toronto glitters. But remember that phrase, “all that glitters is not gold?” That would hold true about this town. Escape up here from Friday afternoon to Sunday night, and you’ll never see the cracks that appear behind the city’s facade. To be sure, those cracks may seem tiny, especially in comparison to comparable sized cities in the US. But ask anyone who’s lived in this town long enough, who remembers Toronto before Condos Gone Wild, and you’ll get a heap of advice about the downside of unchecked development. Take heed, Buffalo, as you embark on your own urban renaissance.
No doubt the explosion of living spaces in Toronto’s core has contributed to its go-go energy. But the social fabric and aesthetic feel of the downtown have been radically altered by the glut of these showcase shoeboxes. Today, only those with high incomes and deep pockets can afford to live in the city’s centre. And the absence of any thoughtful architectural design to these designer dwellings has created a splatter of uninspired, formulaic looking towers devoid of character, taste and visual appeal.

Turn almost any corner in downtown and midtown Toronto and you will see another copycat condo built Manhattan style – taller, bigger, brasher – oblivious to its physical surroundings and neighbourhood character! .

This is not the Toronto I’ve known, or felt proud of growing up. The Toronto I grew up in was content with its reputation as being an attractive place with progressive politics and affordable neighbourhoods. But by the early late 1980’s/early 1990’s, things began to change. Toronto was not satisfied with merely being Canada’s number one city. It wanted an international label and began trying to re-invent itself as the next New York, Paris or London. Not coincidentally, this agenda marked the beginning of the condo craze that continues unabated to this very day.

Admittedly, the result of Toronto’s efforts to reach “world-class” status has yielded some spectacular new architecture in the form of radically eye-popping additions to the venerable Royal Ontario Museum, and Art Gallery of Ontario, and bold new buildings such as the Four Seasons Opera House and the Ontario College of Art and Design.

But the presence of the soon to be completed Trump Tower, now rising 68 floors above street level, will eventually overshadow many of this city’s home grown, high rise headquarters with a smugness and self importance that is simply not Torontonian. No better an example is the Trump Tower of this city’s headstrong and blindsided rush to re-invent itself into something it is inherently not. I don’t want an ersatz replica of a New York City landmark to dominate this skyline when I am an hour’s plane ride away from the real thing.

Buffalo has much to learn from Toronto’s urban amnesia. It’s a simple lesson too. Don’t forget who you are. Don’t forsake your homegrown attributes for things that glitter but are not gold. Buffalo may not rank high on a list of cities with soaring skyscrapers and conspicuous consumption, and I’m not ignorant to the fact that it faces a laundry list of challenges. But as you bring a much needed and much awaited makeover to your downtown, remember, it’s your intangibles that push the city to the top of the list, and it’s your intangibles that are not in need a makeover; an affable, outgoing, unpretentious character; a work ethic rooted in blue collar values; and a cultural climate that allows people to simply be themselves. Indeed, these are the very reasons why so many ex-Buffalonians speak wistfully about their hometown, and why they would move back if circumstances were more favourable.

They are also the reasons why this Torontonian feels an emotional connection to your city that perhaps few people up here can understand. You have a lot to teach this sophisticated city north of the border. I just wish people up here would listen.

good read. :tup: I agree with a bunch of it, especially on why many people from here that move away always speak highly of it.

good read :tup:

thats a good article, too bad nothing around here is gunna change

Funny how I am not originally from around here, and find the exact opposite true.

I hate supporters of Buffalo because they talk about how great this town is, and how friendly the people are, how great the city is etc…

I am tired of the filth downtown, the abandon buildings that look like shit, the undeveloped waterfront, the shitty political representation, UN-friendly people, TAXES!, driving ANYWHERE feels like you are off-roading, the weather sucks…

Shit, I could keep going for awhile, but some of you might think I am disgruntled.

I have lived in many different places, and after visiting Downtown Detroit after previously THINKING if was a shit hole only to realize it was actually a pretty cool city, I am getting the fuck out of Buffalo as soon as I possibly can.

Honestly, I really don’t believe I have EVER lived in a place I could possibly dislike so much.

To most of you that know me, you all know I am a very happy go lucky kind of person, I don’t let virtually ANYTHING get to me, but living in Buffalo right now, is the ONLY worst part of my life right now…

Everything else is going great!

Everyone has a right to an opinion… but my suggestion would be to leave!

Seriously. If you arent happy here, why would you stay?

I guess you just don’t “get it”, not everyone does…

Why are you sticking around here? I know if I felt such passionate hate in my life for anything like you just described, I certainly wouldnt be hanging around bitching… regardless of circumstances.

If for some reason you absolutely HAVE to stay here… what have you done to try and help revitalize buffalo? I mean if you are going to bitch about something that you had no choice but to be around, wouldnt you try and change it?

I have to agree with Tom. I came to this town with a pretty optimistic view and quite frankly I just farted.

I love the city, always have always will, I still want to move to florida but i will always come back here.

Before you start to try and shoot holes into someone, you better make sure your gun has bullet’s in it…

If you want the laundry list of things that I have done, here is a short list:

Volunteered in the following, and performed comunity service just because I felt like it:

Lion’s club
Habitat for Humanity
Through Various other volunteer programs which I can’t think of their names.

I “get it” just as well as anyone else on here, but unlike you, I read and comprehend things, so for your sake, I will reiterate what I said above since you failed to read it:

“I am getting the fuck out of Buffalo as soon as I possibly can”

Right now, I have commitments that I have to fulfill, and I estimate that I will be done in about 9 month’s, and once Nine month’s are over, I don’t have to deal with people like you who just don’t “get it” and lash out a people when:

  1. They fail to read and comprehend what you wrote.
  2. Lived here all their life and don’t know anything else

I am actually one of those people who actually takes part in programs to help “things” because I want to feel like I am, and my life are worthwhile.

I try, when time allows me, to take part in anything that I can…

I have been there, done that as far as Buffalo is concerned, and I am getting the fuck out of this never ending shit hole as fast as I can…

I came to buffalo to get my degree. I stayed after I got it. I found my fiance here. I am a major force in a GROWING company in buffalo. We employ 4 times as many people now as when I started 3 years ago. I have over 150 years of family farming heritage in the south towns, 20+ years of family businesses in the north towns. Be it good or bad, there is more of a sense of community and more culture here than in Rochester. You can drive to anywhere in buffalo from anywhere in buffalo in 20 minutes. The traffic is good. The roads are alright. The tolls aren’t as bad as some places. 20 minute drive to one of the 7 wonders of the world. The drinking age begins at 19 if you don’t mind a 20 minute drive. African, Irish, German, Italian, Polish, and Native American culture abounds. Industry is transitioning from manufacturing to technology. And the WINGS!!!

:tup: Buffalo

Are you fucking serious? The average wing in Buffalo sucks. In fact the best wings I have ever had come from far, far outside of Buffalo.

No fucking way! There is no way any wing can beat the pub or bar bill or fuck even the shitty pizza place down the street

very good read :tup:

Well since you obviously misread my tone…

I ASKED if you have done anything… I was not calling you out for not doing something, for how would I know? I commend you for your efforts and I am sad that you feel that way about Buffalo.

I am sorry if you got the wrong tone from my message, it was hardly written to come off that way.

and about not getting it… I was not insulting your intelligence, I simply meant that you value different things than this city offers, and that opinion is your right. I “get” this city… it works with me, I like it. It doesnt work for you.

You also happen to assume things about me that are very untrue.

I dont know where this outburst comes from… I have never had a problem with you, so I dont know why you would think that I was going off on you like you seem to think my post implied.

It’s pretty obvious that some people won’t be happy anywhere. :slight_smile: I’m not saying this area is terrific and wonderful, but eh, it’s home. It will always be home. Even if I end up on the opposite side of the world, Buffalo will still feel like my favorite t-shirt.

hahaha good stuff goob!

such a sheltered life :roll:

then where are the best wings? NYC? Please

This is where the Buffalo wing orginated, we have the best wings, period

And before you say, “oh you’re just a Buffalo backyard trash hick”

I’ve been all over the world

and…Buffalo is NOT undergoing a reinassaence, it won’t until major reforms are passed through and it is not going to happen anytime soon

as for why am I still in Buffalo? (2 degrees, CS, and history, at UB) I honestly don’t know myself, I’m looking for schools to get my doctorate right now, and who knows where that will take me, but I do know, I’d like to go back to UB and teach history to the students there.

and it amazed me when people come here and say ‘this place sucks’

I don’t care if you did volunteer community service, that can be done anywhere, there is plenty to do here, a bar scene, while not so great, there’s something for everyone within a 30 mile raidus, there’s two casinos, a semi-professional raceway, two professional sports clubs and several minor league teams, in the summer, there is ALWAYS a festival in buffalo

Stop being close minded and get out of your house

and yes, there are drawbacks: the trash that lives around here in buffalo and in the suburbs, (I hate going to my parents house because of the shit that lives around there), idiot politicians, high taxes, I can go on all day, but I’ve been in other places, (I’ve lived in NYC for 6 months, while it has an infinite amount of things to do compared to buffalo, there’s an astounding high cost of living, traffic, even higher taxes)

Had wings in vegas they sucked, had wings in orlando they sucked, had wings in vegas they sucked, had wings in pittsburgh…They were ok but werent good. If you are saying that wings are better somewhere else cause they have fancy sauces you arent talking about wings. I have no idea how you could even try to argue about this point.