Thats the thing. EVERY member here lives in a 30 mile radius and most know everyone personally that sign in every day here. We meet in parking lots to exchange stuff. I understand thats not possible, but what my point is long distance transactions can be a pain in the ass, and a risk. Thats what you agree to socially when doing this. Not saying its right to scam someone based on that, I am saying its not always easy to complete flawlessly.
And no offense but if you took the time to hunt him down, find us here, post at 1AM, and then again today to keep the ball rolling, taking the 5 minutes out to gather evidence for your case is the difference between us not giving a fuck and calling our friend to see if we can help you guys.
I think it has to do with the level of the account. If its in good standing, confirmed addresses and confirmed bank accounts, etc. I remember having issues too at one point and I had to do this please confirm 3 different things like account deposit amounts, a phone call and a letter in the mail to get my account straightened out after having long delays for transactions.
But yeah, mine now works great, and is fast. I dont keep an eye on it because I dont keep a balance and only really deal with companies instead of people so the delay doesnt bother us at all, if there even is one.