Yours and Elliots argument is retarded honestly because of the clauses you put in there, it’s an all or nothing game. Either everybody does the same, or everybody does whatever they want and you don’t hate either way.
If you say that people can do whatever they want EXCEPT one thing or another, you contradict yourself.
Problem is the trend is only cool if others like it and approve of it, but if they do, they will mimic it, it’s that simple.
If the trend is only cool to you and others hate it, then everybody else (being us) will call it silly/goofy/dumb IE ricers, donkers, draggers etc.
You either except all, or none, otherwise you contradict yourself.