HwH22Hx
September 22, 2006, 1:44pm
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damn! I don’t even what to know what is going on between you too…
But, to the original poster, I don’t know your whole situation, and I’m trying for this to come out the best way possible, but you and your fiance might really want to look at your relationship. You said in the one post:
"Im mean I respect it, its just hard to except, at first I ? it because i was there 4 months so far and she claims where getting at each other necks, seems like trust issues arise, but wants to have some time to her self. I dont know. But also our religious aspects come to play, and it kinda hurts when ur so close to someone and it feels like you taking a step back.
But I guess its worth doing what ever it takes to make her happy."
That’s not good man. You don’t want to go through your life just doing what you have to, to make her happy. Relationships are about compromise, and more importantly, collaboration. Would it be possible for you two to continue to live together, but maybe have you sleep in a different room so you don’t have to take on the additional financial hardship, and so that you can continue to see if you can actually function together as a couple? A lot would depend on your level of involvement or belief in your religion I guess, but really, if you are at each other’s necks now, marriage won’t solve that.
I agree with him…sounds to me that if you can’t get along living together ( or if you two are getting at eachother - whether she thinks that soley on her own ) then you’re in for trouble. I can understand the “religion thing” but come on your already living together…sounds like she wants time to think about the whole thing. Sorry just my .2.
In regards to the apt. thing what location would really be best and are you willing to commute to work??