focusinprogress is a free man

well guys…its done, for me anyway

i finally called her tonight when i got home from work with the full intent of ending this thing…but we kinda got into a little argument, and she just kept telling me how bad ive hurt her this past week, and then started falling asleep and had to let me go before i could get it out, and i felt like it was too late…SO

she left her backpack in my car and said she needs it back ASAP…so im going to drop it off tomarrow at her house while no one is home, and i wrote her a little note with how i feel on it, in the nicest words i could find inside me while explaining im not happy anymore, alot has changed between us, and there is someone better for her that will fit her needs better. im going to leave the note in plain view on the outside of the backpack, and leave it by between her side door and the screen door. im going to stop by cingular and have her numbers all blocked first, and will no longer answer any calls by numbers i dont recognize. i made my myspace private, so she wont be able to get any access there, and im going to have my parents have her numbers blocked from the house phone as well. i know i kinda pussed out, but i feel it was the nicest way to let her down without having to trudge through all kinds of mushy bullshit and being able to keep harsh words from being exchanged. i just hope she doesnt come into my work or show up at my house…

WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO…

takes the purse off and gets what he wants… welcome to the single world man… its a blast

Congrats man, hope it doesnt get ugly for you

^ yeah me too, shes a nut, so i dunno what im up against. debating leaving her number from being blocked to talk about it or not, but im not sure what would be better. cause im worried about the texts. shes a text nut and i have to pay for mine $.10 each.

hahahah get the 10 dollar unlimited plan… so she can text the fuck out of you…
$10 is better than 100

dude, i am in the same type of relationship you are in, or were in i should say and there were points that i said, fuck it, im done. and it lasted a day or 2. Then we would get back together and have that great makeupsex…haha right… finaly i had enoguth and told her, if she lloves me like she says she does, there is no fucking reason she should always be pissed at me for the stupidest reasons, and she says that it seems like I dont care, and then i told her " i care about you so much,but if you keep bitchin, i will try to stop my self from caring about you and then you wont see me,period." that def struck a soft spot in her, and from then on we are good. but dude, the best thing about being single,its not the night out with the guys with no worrys,its not the drama…

the best part about being single is waking up, sittin around in your boxers and playing Xbox or ps2 for hours and not having to worry about that phone call that says “babe if ytour not doping anythign then why cant we see each other.?” its like sometimes you just want to lounge arond your house and do what you want even if its stairing at a wall or watching tv

sorrgy for the rant, but dude, if you ever are feeling that you shoudl get back with her cuz you really miss her, just go out with your friends or work on your car or something. take your mind off her. keep your pimp hand strong…

sorry agian for the lecture but i have delt with this way to offten… just offering advice

Stop being a pussy and just tell the bitch you dont want to be with her anymore…you might have to deal with crying and her begging to take you back but everyone has to deal with shit like this once in their lives.

^ ive already dealt with it once, and got punched in the face, then clawed in the back, and nails dug into my arm. no thanx, but i cant deal with her bitching or ill fucking scream.

“i just hope she doesnt come into my work or show up at my house…”

You’re going to make her more crazy by not talking to her in person about it. You are creating a stalker/sycho.

I made that mistake once…just talk to her. she wont go away that easy.

Sounds like you got your hands full…maybe you should go into hiding

fuck, so should i not give her the note? or should i give her the note, but then wait for her call to talk about the note? HELP lol

go to her house at night, break up with her. You can leave her house on your terms, it’s the right thing to do.

btw how long did you date her?

^ in 2 days it would be 15 months. i think im going to leave the letter, and then wait for her call, hopefully its not a visit at work. then im done for, unless the fact that people are around can save me

If you date a girl that long, you owe her an “in-person” break up.
seriously man, I know its hard to do, but in the end its going to be easier on both of you. She WILL show up at your house and might come to your work if thats her only option. If she calls you, its going to end up in a meeting in person anyway, so why drag it out for days and worry about it that long. Sit her down, explain yourself, let her go, get out.

fuck, i dont know if i can do it…

Note sounds like a bad idea to me…face to face seems like the right thing to do…you leave her a note, she gets pissed off, and does something stupid to you or your car in retaliation.

i think tomarrow nite after i finish fixing my car, im going to ask her if i can stop by at like 9 or 10 with the beater, park in the street…sit her down and tell her i have to talk to her. please pray for my life…i guess this thread should be deleted. lol. oops

you can. If you can manage a 1 year relationship, you can do a proper break up.

i’m telling you, it will come back to bite you in the ass and ultimatly its going to end in an in-person meeting anyway. only difference is you’re going to feel like a jerk one way and a man the other way.

:tup: good choice btw

pff… wait til the fucking bitch finds out you are fucking the single person she hates… and throws anything she can get her hads on … getting hit by a stool fucking sucks… then for her to beg for your back… and you not wanting her back and she throwing more shit at you

i hope her mom is home to restrain her lol, im going to say what i need to say and if she starts throwing down im outta there…FAST…not taking the shoes off, and talking in the living room where there are no sharp objects.