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[KrazyKid]

@Akira

Wow pal, a little narrow minded are we? I’ve got two kids, and I’m not married. Two things: Weddings cost a lot of money. A lot. Let’s also mention that over 50% of marriages end in divorce, which usually fucks a kid up a whole lot more than just breaking it off.

I’m engaged, I’m getting married next year, but just because I have kids and I’m not married doesn’t mean myself or my kids are scumbags.

Not really narrow minded, my statement was a quick generalization, only adding my 2 cents to a comment already made, I just took it a step further. I have a big thing in life against people that “fit the profile”; unemployed people who dont try because their neighbor gets away with it so why cant they, younger kids that fuck up just because they can and know they will get away with it, and it translates to peoples cars too when they do cookie cutter shit because its the easy way out. Look around, everything was created because someone thought differently than the last guy and made a mark in time. Lead the race or get the fuck out of the way.

Weddings are expensive, but the paper work isnt. not to mention the monetary gains in the long run by getting married will pay for the papers in that years tax return. Dont party like a rock star and anyone can do it. And again %50 fail at it because they “fit the profile”… so once again lead the race or move aside.

@h0twh3els

I’m disappointed with Krazy an ilya for making comments on things they don’t have any knowledge about… I’m with you, I’m not married and don’t plan on it.

My son and I are far from scumbags… And if you’re judging a person based on there marital status and fact of having a kid, you’re the moron… There’s a lot of single parents who do a better job than parents who are married.

Easy partner. :ahh Just because I didnt reproduce yet doesn’t mean I dont see whats going on, or what the deal is about. You know the shit that Steff and her sister went through because the parents couldn’t hack it together. I know about 15 people from my class alone that had kids and didn’t handle it as well as you did/can for example. I only know about 2 that are doing as well as yourself and will make the righe decisions as they come up. My statement also had more meaning behind it than I took the time to type out initially. I feel the same way about the opposite situation, dont just get married because your having a child and thats what society says is right. Do it because you feel whole heartedly that it IS right for you both. “Death do us part” doesn’t mean shit to people anymore it seems. So more respect to the people that dont need to go down that path yet still live a good life and raise another human just the same.

@h0twh3els

I’m not saying it is. I’m just saying that the both of you are making generalizations on a subject you can only read about, because you have no real world experience with it.

I agree there is plenty of people out there abusing the system… However, making a generalization that people who aren’t married are scumbags and so are there kids is foolish.

People who are a single parent try double as hard because we know there are people out there like yourself and Krazy, and do our best to raise our kids to be prepared for that type of ignorance.

And I guess you’re saying that if parents are divorced, the child shouldn’t see one of his parents because they have to switch between houses?? Not seeing one of his parents is more healthy for the child??? Really??? You might be old fashioned, and that’s fine… but you’re also an idiot on this topic.

My advice to you is either:

A. Never get married
B. Never have a child

I can tell just by your posts you’re not mature enough to handle a situation that isn’t what you want. People are separated for many reasons, who are you to judge that?

Again, it was foolish to just throw 40 words out there without any more depth your right. I do have first real world experience, even though they aren’t mine. Steff worked in labor and delivery for a while. The stories she came home with DAILY will blow your mind. The youngest mom she delivered for was 14. 15 year olds that needed dr’s notes to get out of school to have a baby. Underage girls having a baby with A: no daddy present &/or B: No parent present or C: or alone. She had to kick out belligerent daddy’s from the room because they are disgraceful people. People who are dressed to the hills in blinged out roca wear shit, yet ask the dr about how they can get government assistance for the kid, dr’s aren’t social worker! Literally every day she has an example of “fitting the profile” I based my statements off. ALSO, she comes home with very good stories. Young couples that look like they can handle it, married or not. Its like a mechanic looking at a used car, anyone in the business can see a train wreck coming within the first 15 minutes of seeing it. SURE there are ones where your thinking it’s a total dumper initially and get flabbergasted when it turns out not to be true… but more times than not it doent work like that.

Its as simple as do things right and you cant be faulted. If people strive to work your way out of “fitting the profile” and succeed I applaud you more than you will ever know.