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@Ilya

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Can you read? The kids wouldn’t have to live in two different homes, have two different ‘schedules’, etc. if people didn’t get divorced to begin with. WTF happened to “till death do us part”? Do Americans skip that part? Like being homosexual, it became an ‘okay thing’ to do as time progressed. That’s where my post about morals comes into play. Those words quoted above no longer mean anything. Marriage is just a word now, it has no meaning to most people. Oh I’m married. Yeah? Cool. It used to mean something, and that’s what I think me, Oleg, and maybe Krazy were getting at. If you don’t like my/our opinion…well…you can just deal with it. :rofl

I’m from a totally different culture/upbringing. The rate of divorce amongst the Christian slavic (eastern Europeans in case you don’t know who I’m referring to) peoples is a fraction of what the American % is. Hell, may even be less. Much lower than 50% that the rest of the nation is at. I’m sure I"ll be fine. Thank you for caring though. Unlike many people, when you make a commitment to someone and say words like ‘till death do us part’, I plan to hold to my end of the bargain. Can’t say the same for half of America.

Anyway, you’re extrapolating WAY more out of that post than you should have. You feel like he’s judging you, fine. But why? I’m not sure. Either way…knock yourself out. My parents, grand parents, and siblings have all been married for years and divorce never even crossed their mind. Hell, many old timers (born in the early 1900’s) are/were together till they died (I’m sure this includes most if not all grand parents of every member on this forum). What’s changed since you ask? Oh I know! Morals. People ain’t got em. They just wanna bang and move on to the next one and if a kid(s) pops out along the way, to hell with em. Some dads disappear. Some marry the girls because of the kid and then get divorced because neither of them really wanted marriage to begin with, etc. etc. It’s all a crock of shit. Keep it in your pants and only have kids with people you truly care about and would live the rest of your life with. You know, be “old fashioned”. At least that’s my opinion.

Yes, I can’t really say much on this subject other than from what I encounter when I hear the constant drama (and drain on the kids) from people at work. But if you think you calling me ignorant is going to make me change my OPINION (keyword), well, you have another thing coming. You’re a noob on Shift518. Let me fill you in on something. It’s a well known fact here that I don’t care what people think. It’s also a well known fact that I’m probably number 3 on the “Shift518 most hated list” (behind Travis and that kid that banged his sister or whatever). I think divorce is a f’ed up thing. And I also happen to think that the people who resort to it because they don’t care enough to work out some issue are weak people who just give up at the first sign of trouble. Do you like my opinion? Probably not. But guess what? I couldn’t care less. Do it your way, I’ll do it mine. More power to you.

Have a great day :). I will not be posting on this topic any further.

Seriously take your religion out of this for a minute. Be open minded if that is possible for you.

I was brought up in a home where my parents got divorced when I was 10. Guess what? Myself and my sister are doing just fine. Actually I was happy they divorced because all they did was argue. Now they are happier than ever with new partners.

I say do what makes you happy. If your in a marriage that has failed and nothing is going to make it work, end it. The kids will do just fine. How do I know this? Because most people I know come from divorced parents and yes, you guessed it, they too are doing just fine.

I will never get married and that is not a bad thing. If a child is brought into this world between two unmarried people, and they rights to that child are shared where he gets interaction with both mom and dad, how is there any harm there? He dosen’t know what a “religious” family is because he was never in one. He gets brought up and does just fine in life.

All you have Ilya is your opinion which is HEAVILY influenced by your religion. I can’t expect you to see it any other way but you need to lay off judging things you know only one side of.