Headlight problems

I have a 90 240sx with pignose and flip up lights.
ever since i got the car the lights have been up. (stuck)

explanation

  • Lights are up and turn on and off normaly but do not return down.
  • When lights have been manualy turned to the down position they
    will pop up but not return down.

iv tryed the following

  • visualy checking the plugs
  • Dissconnecting the battary for 5 min and reconnecting
  • Swaping all the relays related to the headlights
  • Swaping the up down switch
  • Swaping the assemably
  • checking all fuses

Could someone please tell me what relay is for the headlight return (to make sure i checked the right one) and what relay is supposta be there?

Headlight RET or H/L RET

I forget if there is one or 2 and I believe its a blue relay. You can only fit
the right color relay into the connector anyways.

well mine had 3 the same…
all black
and they fit…
but the H/L ret is the same as the headlight relays… which is why i asked… because this seems od…

i have no blue relays in my car?
is this normal?