Knowing how obnoxious it is to own a business, a friend of mine does and i have helped him a lot, he works 60-90 hours a week, and works from home as well with the email and phones.
Only thing is my buddy is single, with a wife that isnt a stay at home mom and 2 kids, you probably have I would guess 2 hours a night ish with your kids before they go to bed then probably 2 with your wife before you go to bed, if you were to get home at 7 and go to bed at 11.
Businesses dont stop on the weekends the only issues with most cleaning services is that unless its a super private maid, you need to be home when they are there.
So you can do other shit while they are bustling around cleaning such as helping the kids with hw and or decorating the house for xmas.
You are probably one of the least lazy people on this board, running a business especially in the market where your business is.
Okay this strayed off topic
you have a few options
A group of a few cleaners that will clean your house for $60 once in about 40 mins.
1 woman who will do so in about 2 hours with the same pay.
Or a private maid that will be very expensive but would have keys to your house and would clean when your not there, do your laundry and other things you need done.
They are all available in rochester, they will be in buffalo as well.
You just need to choose which one is right for you.