Bingo.
Just spoke to my mother who went through a divorce, and had to have things divided up. (since her divorce was also very similar )
The reason for divorce (and kids) she said is usually the 2 major deciding factors on how much the other party gets. In your case as I described to her she said as long as you have a good attorney she won’t see much at all.
EDIT: also who filed for divorce you or her? And on the paperwork whats the reason.