buy the “micro” sd memory card put in in ur phone.connect it to ur comp. using the cord u have to buy form verizon (also includes the headphones that only work for the phone $30 extra) download itunes and put the songs u wanna put on ur phone into the playlist plug in the phone to ur comp. it will bring up a menu on the microsoft media player (cant think of he name right now) drag ur loaded music from itunes into the new menu from the windows player then hit sync.this is a shitty explaination but if u need more help pm me