^ :word: on that one bro. i know how this feels as i went through the same thing. 3 yrs with someone and then they go away for college, and start to fall into drugs and such, getting their life all out of order, then says they need a little break to sort things out, and bangs another dude a week later while trying to string you on. get out now, and have fun being single for a while until something great falls into your lap.