mms with cingular smartphone issue?!?!

ive done this
http://forums.cingular.com/rss/message?board.id=Audiovox&message.id=4675
and

pretty much the same thing, but im still getting the
“Unable to connect. Verify your dialup or proxy settings are correct, and try again” error

proxy is set to connect from: the internet, and connect to: wap network
with the type set to http
gprs is set to connect to: the internet, and the access point is wap.cingular
both have the username and password

wtf!!!

what a bunch of lame shit
you have to just set it up to use internet for the connection, and it works fine. stupid proxy crap.