To continue with the example.
Then everything will start going wrong with the car, things breaking, parts going, it won’t run right, you won’t be satisfied with it anymore.
You decide to put it up for sale, and your friends are going to be up in arms about it, because they’ve always supported you and helped you put in the alternator. What they are not realizing, is that you no longer have a choice, you’re just sick of the car and you don’t want to deal with the BS it’s giving you and the financial drain it’s putting on you. The deam is gone, you move on.
And when you sell it, your friends will be mad at you because they wanted to see you keep it and wanted to see it around, without relating at all to how you felt on the issue.