ignorance is bliss.
if the gf or the friend don’t own up to it then don’t say anything. if you do you’ll be involved and you don’t want to be. i know its shitty, i’ve been there, but i’ve been there with 10 other people when it should have been between me the boyfriend and the fucking whore.
yes he is your friend and you do owe him something…maybe tell him the rumour. his interest will spark and maybe he’ll get it out of one of them.
ugh. so shitty.
don’t get involved.