So you’re down to two vehicles with excellent reliability records rated highly in their class. Drive both, price both, pick the one she likes best. They are direct competitors so I doubt the price will be much different if both are similarly equipped. The two definitely have a different flavor and one should appeal to her more than the other once she drives them. I’d probably like the Accord more while my wife would probably prefer the Camry. I’d say the Accord felt more sporty, while she’d say the Camry rode smoother. We’re both saying the same thing but expressing it differently because of driving styles and preferences.