That’s fine, but it has to be a TWO WAY STREET! You want me to pay for them? Fine, then I get a say in how you raise them. You don’t do a good job and there has to be some sort of penalty against YOU. And no, that doesn’t mean taking away the kid you never wanted in the first place. But if you’re going to force the responsibility of some crack whore’s kid on me, you better give me the ability to force some responsibility back on her.